2006-09-27

Arrrrrggggghhhh!!!!

I'm so incredibly frustrated!

I've got a lot of shit going on in my personal life. A lot I so seriously don't want to document, some I do but can't yet, and some that I want to forget. So needless to say I'm tired, cranky and stressed to the max.

Then I get this JACKASS at work who decides he wants to pick a fight with me. These are seriously the days that I HATE being a working mom. Wouldn't it just be easier to stay at home and fight with my own children than dealing with other children in the work environment (children of the 28 year old variety?)

Last Friday, he was being disrespectful to our supervisor in front of all of us. Then he decided to go back and bring ME into his issues. Saying crap about me...and then said that I needed to go home and "learn some things from Chuck". Um, excuse me? I need to learn something from "my man"? Nope, don't think that's gonna fly with me. I am not below anyone because I am a woman. And that was completely disrespectful to even bring my husband's name into a nasty situation.

So then last night, he comes up here to talk to me about it. I told my super that I couldn't deal with it because I am honestly EXHAUSTED, physically and mentally. I honestly could not handle one more thing...nor tonight because of other events.

He has now taken that as a personal attack on him. I'm causing HIM stress. I'm causing HIM anxiety. Fucking please. Shut up and be an adult. I didn't say I wouldn't talk to you just that I didn't want to tonight!!! So now he's posting "rules" outside his cubicle that he feels I've broken, highlighting them and starring them. Talk about freaking hostile. I'm pissed. I so want to be petty and bitchy and retaliate but considering that I'm in a pseudo-supervisory role I can't and won't do that.

Too bad he couldn't be that professional as well.

5 comments:

Jenn said...

He sounds like an idiot. Prime candidate for a big giant boot up the arse IMO.
Sorry about your work probs. - I got fed up with dealing with jerks at work, so now I work for ME. Sure I don't make much, but my boss is great (me) and I can take as many chocolate breaks as I feel I deserve (lots). Heck, I'd give myself a raise if I paid myself. In fact, I think mamma needs a new pair of shoes.....

-Lo said...

GAD! I so want you to post these rules. I so do! But i know you cant

Rule#1. Try not to be intimidated because I have a pussy.

#2. Grow a pair of testicles.

#3. Bring my man up again in a situation and your ganna have my foot in your ass.

#4. Stop being such a bitch

#5. Stop checking out my ass when were in a meeting.

OMG i could think of so many more.
I hate that your dealing with this.
I love you. Feel better soon....

-Lo

Lisa said...

LO I'm so LMFAO right now.

I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to post those...Gawd, I'm so showing this to my hubby he'll get such a kick!

JUDE said...

BLESS YOUR HEART AND HOPE YOU HAVE A BETTER DAY TOMORROW. ITS BAD ENOUGH TO HAVE TO BE OUT THERE IN THESE FRIGGING WORK PLACES TO BEGIN WITH, EVERYBODY NEEDS TO HAVE A LIVING. WHY CANT THE DUFFUS JUST DO HIS JOB? WHY DOESN IT ALWAYS HAVE TO BE INTIMIDATING? IM GONNA SET UP A GRIS GRIS JUST FOR HIM AND ALL HIS STRESS TO DISAPPEAR. NO HARM, JUST MOVE ON. KISS KING

Hannah said...

Sorry to hear you're going through this, Lisa. It sucks! I know what it is like to work with a loser and not be able to do anything about it. In my case, I just waited it out until she left (she kept threatening to and finally did after 3 years!!) and now things are sweet.
I hope things improve for you, or that this idiot realises how much their behaviour is affecting other people.

 

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